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Recently, I have a couple of acquaintances (I wouldn't call them friends, we're not that close just yet) who had the audacity to lecture me about messaging and replying back to them. 

Uhhh okay. There's going to be a couple of reasons why I don't message back and why I'm ranting about how this is not okay. At least to me, everyone else has their own reasons.

First of all, I'm just busy and sometimes I only focus on one thing which is usually my work. So if I thought I messaged/texted you back but I actually didn't then I apologize. But please understand that my first priority should be getting my stuff done that way I can have more free time to actually talk to you.

Second of all, if I simply just don't message you, it's because I don't want to bother you. At all. I'm literally one of those people who will talk to you, if you talk to me first. And this is true about 95 percent of the time. The other five percent, I become the person who talks to you first for a number of reasons: One, I actually debate with myself and decided to take a chance and message you. Two, I am having an emergency that requires your assistance in some form or another. Three, I have something to discuss with you and this cannot be held off whatsoever. I suppose that could count as an emergency, but it's also different because it's not really as urgent as I try to make it to be. 
All in all, I don't like bothering people, they're probably busy, in a bad mood, or having a really fun day and I don't want to be that person who somehow messes that up or be that person who bothers them when they rather be, again, having a fun day. That's just all I am, live with it.

Lastly, there are certain circumstances that causes me to not message you back at all, such as a power outage or my internet being abruptly cut off. That is something I cannot control and you're going to have to live with that. So basically, I'll message you when I can. So stop bugging me UNLESS I say you can bug me.

I just find it really irritating that I have people kind of threatening me about this kind of stuff. ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD and you can literally talk to tons of other people than me. I am NOT the most reliable person to talk to. 
Don't threaten people, over something stupid such as lack of communication. Sure, we need to IMPROVE IT, but I don't believe you should threaten them to the extreme. That is not okay. 

End of rant. 
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Meri64
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As far as I would go for my name is Meri. I will not reveal my real one to you unless you either already know it, are my closest, personal friend and anything that relates of the two I have just stated. Other than that, try to get to know me more and then maybe I'll tell you but for now, it's either Meri for you. I have accounts on other sites as well which usually goes by the name Meri, Meribell, Crystal, Meru and anything else I can try to remember that I would use as a name. Bleh.

I love to draw, but I am not quite an artist, like a great one. My brother is though, well I think he is, lol. Go to Drake117 to see his art. I like to write as well, but what I write is complete crap, yet I get some request to do about a certain topic, oddly enough, oh well. I will take occasional photography I guess, but only when I'm bored. I would try to post up videos but unfortunately I don't really know how. i would advise to go to my youtube to for the videos I make.

My best friends are:
PurpleGlompingPanda
VampireSora1
PoeChan
PandaMcAwesomeFace
*myranda123678
Ombraforevah
InnocentNightmare
DeathNoteOtakuL127

I have more but they don't have a DA so yeah. My bad.

On a side note to all of this, I don't really appreciate being criticized or being critique unless I personally ask for it and I'm pretty sure you will know if my story/art/poem/etc is asking for one. I only do it for fun and all that and some of them are requested but doesn't mean I want any. I mean, I'm a type of person who would gladly take any criticism to mind but then when it comes to that, people go a little overboard and eh... I guess you can say, I'm a bit sensitive to it and i know the person doesn't mean to be overly harsh, it was just the opinion of they thought. I just want you to please consider about if the person wants to be criticized or not. basically, I'm just looking for "you like it or not?" thing. If you don't then, I don't know what to do about it and if you do, good for you.

And also, I hate how people going like "Um, this doesn't belong here." You can't really say that unless specifically it says it can't be here. Don't act like a person who runs things around here, I'm just saying. Let's say photography for example. Photography could be anything and I don't see how that is against something. I mean, such as, you're practicing to do portrait pictures or landscaping. So usually they take pictures of things at home or outside. It isn't against posting things up online. And just because you see something, doesn't mean you HAVE to say something about it. No one said you had to do that, you did yourself so you're kinda taking a risk of telling someone you don't know at all unless the person themselves said you could and is accepting. I'm just saying here. So yeah.

That's all for now~ Hope we can be friends in the future~
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Meri64 Featured By Owner Oct 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Chu welcome X3
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THANKS FOR THE FAVES X'D
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chu welcome ; u ; <3
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ahah is alright uwu
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Meri64 Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
*hugs*
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PINKDIAMOND3000 Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014  Student Digital Artist
You´re welcome.
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Meri64 Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
thanks ;~;
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PINKDIAMOND3000 Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014  Student Digital Artist
D: Oh.... Good luck then...
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Meri64 Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I just started school last week ;n;
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Yeah is lucky
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I see ; A ; 
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hahah not really I had to work a whol year before getting my vacations
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lucky ; - ;
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